At the end of my forties, I decided to just fuck it, or more accurately, just get fucked, and I threw myself wholeheartedly into being an online bottom. This blog is about the men I’ve met and our relationships, some lasting 15 minutes, some lasting for years. The focus will be on the actual experiences and encounters and the issues they raise. I will also try to put it all in some kind of broader perspective, whether that be the 5 decades of faggotry I have made it through, or current issue in the gay community. As much as possible, I will put jokes ahead of jargon and, in the end, its just one middle-aged, white homo’s opinion.